I went back home this weekend and had a wonderful time with my family. It's always nice when you get to go back home, relax, and just chill. However, that is rarely the case for me.

See, my mom is single and every time I go back home she has what I call a "Son-to-do List". This list can include getting boxes out of the attic, putting boxes in the attic, fixing the sprinklers, fixing the garbage disposal, caulking the bathroom tub, mounting her TV, and the list goes on and on.

When I first moved away after college I saw this as a burden and a chore when I just wanted to relax. But as I've matured, I see it as me just returning the favor.

For almost two decades she sacrificed so much to provide for me. The least I could do is make sure her "Son-to-do List" gets checked off as much as possible every time I go home.

So next time you return home ask your parents how you can help and return the favor. It's the least you can do.

This weekend I watched the live-action version of How The Grinch Stole Christmas. It’s definitely a tradition to watch it ever year. (Scary fact, this came out 18 years ago!) While I was watching I realized there were a few good lessons to take away from this movie. 

1. Be kind and welcoming. We are all different and unique in our own way so embrace it! And be understanding and respect other cultures and traditions. 
2. Be jolly! Like the Grinch, people can change, but in order to do so they need help. So lead by example and show kindness, understanding and be positive.
3. Be caring. Care more for people than things. Appreciate the moments with your family, friends and loved ones this holiday season 💕